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Tuesday, March 23, 2010
For the very first time
Years ago, when I first started on the internet, I came with a purpose...To share what I create. I'm not here looking for love or romance. I'm here for work, business, music, art, networking for musicians and artists. That's it, nothing more.
If you're not interested in my work, we have no business together. I don't get to know folks on the internet. I tried it already, especially with those of the male gender, and it didn't work out at all. The internet is not a safe place to hang our heart or have our heartstrings pulled. We can't control anything that happens on the web, and we can't control the other person, so they can take full opportunity to do and say whatever they want. These type instances are what can ruin any online relationship, whether it be romance or just friendship. We can barely trust people in real life, nowadays, and trusting them while online is an even bigger risk. Leading someone on under false pretenses is wrong. Testing someone by approaching them under different identities is wrong. The internet makes liars out of people, and it's become acceptable by lots of folks. We all make up names and identities nowadays...It's not really a lie anymore, is it?
It's sad that life has boiled down to this. Where the sexual demoralization of women has become an occupation and a past time for men, and women have been oppressed/suppressed for so long, that we don't see what is happening to the outlook of females as a whole.
Men can feed women a bunch of lies and expect us to believe it. They can sexualize us all they want, but we still have a personal choice, and we can choose to be a lady. We can also choose to be with a man who treats us like a lady, AT ALL TIMES.
Don't give in, don't settle for those "type" guys just cause they're good looking or because they have means in life...Who cares? Money isn't everything, and the Bible says we won't find the rich man in heaven. What really matters at the end of the day is....When we know we can trust that one special person with our whole heart..We know they won't lie to us or cheat on us. That's what is REAL. A real man is one who needs only one woman, the one true love of his life to make him completely happy.
Your man should only have eyes for you, and he should let that be known every single day of your life.
Times don't need to change for the worse..Let me say something else folks, men can still pay for a woman's meal on the first date and open her car door, without expecting something in return.
Nowadays, if a woman doesn't pay her own way, then she's pretty much screwed, and when she finally adapts and learns to take care of herself, then she seems cold, standoffish, and feminist, and gets remarks..like, oh, you must have been treated badly..Us women can't win for losing, and when we do win, men try to interfere to make us feel inferior...I guess men feel threatened by smart, strong women, so when the woman does something that they don't like, they have to stoop to a different level by putting the woman down, or insulting her way of life, or the people already in her life.
When trying to have an online relationship, there can be much suspicion, doubt, confused feelings, and uncertainty..especially if people are hesitant to expose their identity. We are going on the person's words rather than their real life feelings and emotions, and frankly my dear, it's not worth it because identical words can have varied meanings when phrased differently.
I'm sticking to real life, where I see what I get, and I know what I'm getting is what I see, and I know it to be real and true. That's all I'll trust, the real, reality, here and now.
True love shouldn't be hard. It shouldn't be a guessing game. It shouldn't be a struggle. There shouldn't be foul words toward each other before you've even met in real life..If this be the case, then in my own personal opinion, I can say..It's not the right person for you. True love is understanding, encouraging, forgiving, compassionate, empathetic, motivating, inspiring..I know because I have someone in my life that has all these things..Always offering me these things, unconditionally, and I kept overlooking it because I wanted to have things my way. I felt like true love should be glamorous and all that hype..but ya know what, I've learned something very very important....
True love is exactly the opposite! It's making it through the worst times together and still being able to look at each other and just never want to look away. That's true love, supporting each other even when we don't deserve it. Even when we've been at our lowest..True, unconditional love is the comforting force that helps us get back up and keep moving forward.
Sometimes, true love can be so simple that we don't recognize it. We keep searching..searching, until we realize the search is pointless, a waste of time.
We don't have to seach for true love. True love finds us, and when it does, it shouldn't be like pulling teeth to make it work out and make it happen. It should flow and come natural for both people. It should be mutual, and there shouldn't be negative feelings or abusive words exchanged before a meet-up. That is an instant RED FLAG..Meaning...this is NOT the true love of your life. If someone can get angry at you before they even meet you, and assume negative things about you, your life, or the people in your life, then how could they love you when you first get up in the morning? How could they love you when you're sick, or when you need comfort and encouragement..and so on?
My advice..Before committing yourself to any type of a relationship on the internet, make sure you exhaust all options in real life, as that's always our best bet...And if you are experiencing any of the symptoms I mentioned, lol, and it's causing you to question your relationship, then get out of it and wait for what God has for you.
Maybe what God has for you has already been in your life and you just couldn't see it clearly. Open your mind, heart, and eyes, and take a good look around. Maybe you'll see now....for the very first time.
Sending out lotsa luv and light to everyone. Thanks for reading :)
If you're not interested in my work, we have no business together. I don't get to know folks on the internet. I tried it already, especially with those of the male gender, and it didn't work out at all. The internet is not a safe place to hang our heart or have our heartstrings pulled. We can't control anything that happens on the web, and we can't control the other person, so they can take full opportunity to do and say whatever they want. These type instances are what can ruin any online relationship, whether it be romance or just friendship. We can barely trust people in real life, nowadays, and trusting them while online is an even bigger risk. Leading someone on under false pretenses is wrong. Testing someone by approaching them under different identities is wrong. The internet makes liars out of people, and it's become acceptable by lots of folks. We all make up names and identities nowadays...It's not really a lie anymore, is it?
It's sad that life has boiled down to this. Where the sexual demoralization of women has become an occupation and a past time for men, and women have been oppressed/suppressed for so long, that we don't see what is happening to the outlook of females as a whole.
Men can feed women a bunch of lies and expect us to believe it. They can sexualize us all they want, but we still have a personal choice, and we can choose to be a lady. We can also choose to be with a man who treats us like a lady, AT ALL TIMES.
Don't give in, don't settle for those "type" guys just cause they're good looking or because they have means in life...Who cares? Money isn't everything, and the Bible says we won't find the rich man in heaven. What really matters at the end of the day is....When we know we can trust that one special person with our whole heart..We know they won't lie to us or cheat on us. That's what is REAL. A real man is one who needs only one woman, the one true love of his life to make him completely happy.
Your man should only have eyes for you, and he should let that be known every single day of your life.
Times don't need to change for the worse..Let me say something else folks, men can still pay for a woman's meal on the first date and open her car door, without expecting something in return.
Nowadays, if a woman doesn't pay her own way, then she's pretty much screwed, and when she finally adapts and learns to take care of herself, then she seems cold, standoffish, and feminist, and gets remarks..like, oh, you must have been treated badly..Us women can't win for losing, and when we do win, men try to interfere to make us feel inferior...I guess men feel threatened by smart, strong women, so when the woman does something that they don't like, they have to stoop to a different level by putting the woman down, or insulting her way of life, or the people already in her life.
When trying to have an online relationship, there can be much suspicion, doubt, confused feelings, and uncertainty..especially if people are hesitant to expose their identity. We are going on the person's words rather than their real life feelings and emotions, and frankly my dear, it's not worth it because identical words can have varied meanings when phrased differently.
I'm sticking to real life, where I see what I get, and I know what I'm getting is what I see, and I know it to be real and true. That's all I'll trust, the real, reality, here and now.
True love shouldn't be hard. It shouldn't be a guessing game. It shouldn't be a struggle. There shouldn't be foul words toward each other before you've even met in real life..If this be the case, then in my own personal opinion, I can say..It's not the right person for you. True love is understanding, encouraging, forgiving, compassionate, empathetic, motivating, inspiring..I know because I have someone in my life that has all these things..Always offering me these things, unconditionally, and I kept overlooking it because I wanted to have things my way. I felt like true love should be glamorous and all that hype..but ya know what, I've learned something very very important....
True love is exactly the opposite! It's making it through the worst times together and still being able to look at each other and just never want to look away. That's true love, supporting each other even when we don't deserve it. Even when we've been at our lowest..True, unconditional love is the comforting force that helps us get back up and keep moving forward.
Sometimes, true love can be so simple that we don't recognize it. We keep searching..searching, until we realize the search is pointless, a waste of time.
We don't have to seach for true love. True love finds us, and when it does, it shouldn't be like pulling teeth to make it work out and make it happen. It should flow and come natural for both people. It should be mutual, and there shouldn't be negative feelings or abusive words exchanged before a meet-up. That is an instant RED FLAG..Meaning...this is NOT the true love of your life. If someone can get angry at you before they even meet you, and assume negative things about you, your life, or the people in your life, then how could they love you when you first get up in the morning? How could they love you when you're sick, or when you need comfort and encouragement..and so on?
My advice..Before committing yourself to any type of a relationship on the internet, make sure you exhaust all options in real life, as that's always our best bet...And if you are experiencing any of the symptoms I mentioned, lol, and it's causing you to question your relationship, then get out of it and wait for what God has for you.
Maybe what God has for you has already been in your life and you just couldn't see it clearly. Open your mind, heart, and eyes, and take a good look around. Maybe you'll see now....for the very first time.
Sending out lotsa luv and light to everyone. Thanks for reading :)
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